Regret & Guilt
Regret is a normal part of losing a loved one. Thoughts can easily go to the past with statement such as “I could have…” “I should have…” “I wish I would have…” done something different. These thoughts can paralyze action in the present. We can learn from our past, but we cannot change it. Learning to cope and deal with feelings of regret is critical for effectively moving forward. Surviver’s guilt often goes hand in hand with feelings of regret. People often feel unworthy of remaining alive when a loved one is taken. Feeling of guilt can prevent the surviver from moving forward and making the most of their life.
Deiter F Utchdorf
Marc and Angel Hack
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After a fatal car crash a surviving teen faced with great pain and loss, turns to God to find answers to his soul’s deepest questions.
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