Stepping Stones or Stumbling Blocks?

stepping stones

I know of several people who are experiencing severe trials in their lives right now. Their circumstances have made me reflect on the things our family has faced. I have been reminded of the pain, the struggles, the questions… the really hopeless times. Then I have thought of all of the experiences that have come because of those hard things. I’ve looked at how my faith and trust in God has grown these past 4 years. I’ve noticed how fear controls a much smaller portion of my life and how my desire to control my circumstances and other people has diminished. I can see that I am better at feeling peace, better at loving others, better at dealing with my trials.

One truth I have learned is that Severe Trials have the propensity to propel you forward. The stones in our path can be stumbling blocks or stepping stones. How we choose to view them and use them makes all of the difference.The stones in our path can be stumbling blocks or stepping stones. How we choose to view them and use them makes all of the difference.

I’m grateful for the truth I know that has allowed me to eventually see those stones as positive ways to move forward. As I approach year four on this journey, my goal is to not get tripped up by the stones in the path, but to use them to propel me forward. My goal is to feel more joy in life and to allow Christ to resorb some of the sorrow. 

Trials can strengthen you and gratitude can lift you. What we do with the things we are given makes all of the difference. This summer I had all of my kids home for the first time in three years. All of the loss and waiting has taught me that I have much to be grateful for. As I have focused on the good in my life, I have found the power to get over those stones is much greater. Lately, I have noticed that they seem smaller. I have wondered if my eyes are playing tricks on me. Perhaps with all of the climbing, my legs have finally gotten stronger. Either way, I’ve also noticed that the weight in my pack doesn’t seem as heavy when I let go of the negative thoughts that pull me down and focus on the lighter thoughts of gratitude. 

Trials can strengthen you and gratitude can lift you. What we do with the things we are given makes all of the difference. 

I hope today that my thoughts give you something to reflect on. 

Questions to Ponder:

  • How can you look at the stones in your life differently?  
  • What role can gratitude play in helping you overcome those hurdles before you?

I would love to hear your thoughts.

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